During my dates, I rarely experience a man having orgasm problems. Most of the time the men have no difficulty reaching the “top”, no matter if it is a quickie or a longer date, they will be satisfied and happy in the end.

But sometimes they have orgasm issues…and during my dates, I have noticed an important reason (of course not the only one) after a man hasn’t reached the orgasm: we meet us for the first time, and after a shower, he “shoots at the goal” immediately and quickly! He just starts without a shorter or longer foreplay, which could have prepared the body and stimulate him well.

I love and enjoy foreplay, that shouldn’t be put at the side at all. It is the best way where we can discover our partner’s body through the reactions and it leads us nicely to our goal. Preparing the body and getting really excited helps both of them to get into the mood and turn off. No matter if it takes 10 minutes or half an hour, or if the foreplay is filled with lovely caressing or role play, in any case, these games will worth it.

From gentle kisses and soft touches to hot blowjobs, from erotic massage to taking a shower together… foreplay can be very varied.

Women and men’s bodies have numerous erogenous zones to pamper with gentle kisses, tender caresses and with the tongue – the inside of the thighs and the arms / hand, knees, nipples, neck and shoulder.

Quick sex can, of course, be refreshing, but if you are visiting a lady you haven’t met before, and you know that you can’t reach the orgasm easily, please think for a second about this article, and start with exciting foreplay!